Five Books that Changed My Life
Tiny Beautiful Things by Cheryl Strayed
Tiny Beautiful Things is a collection of advice columns written by Cheryl Strayed, under the pseudonym "Sugar." The book is a compilation of compassionate, honest, and deeply insightful responses to the letters Strayed received from readers seeking guidance on various life challenges. I read it as my aunt was dying and I feel that it taught me empathy and understanding. It showed me examples of how to be vulnerable, how to be ok stumbling forward into a path unknown, and how to comfort my family. Strayed's writing is raw, vulnerable, and deeply honest. She shares her own personal experiences and struggles, allowing readers to connect with her on a deeply human level. The book offered solace, inspiration, and guidance as I navigated a deeply complex chapter of life.
Atomic Habits by James Clear
I listened to this book on Audible as I was training for a half marathon. I never liked running or considered myself a runner, but James Clear asked me to change myself and identify as a runner to cement the habits into my lifestyle. The book provides a practical and actionable framework for creating and sustaining positive habits. He emphasizes the power of small habits and incremental improvements—just 1% better. He argues that it's the small, consistent actions taken over time that lead to significant and lasting transformations.
Devotion by Mary Oliver
Some people have the bible. I have Mary Oliver. Her poetry often centers around nature and the natural world. She has a remarkable ability to capture the awe-inspiring beauty of the environment and its profound impact on the human soul. Her poems invite readers to slow down, observe, and appreciate the wonders of the natural world, fostering a sense of reverence and connectedness. Devotions is a collection of selected poems spanning several decades and published volumes of poems. They include the most beloved and celebrated works. She can bring me back home to myself in just a few moments.
The Life-Changing Magic of Tidying Up: The Japanese Art of Decluttering and Organizing by Marie Kondo
I read this book in 2014 and still fold my clothes the Kondo-way. The Life-Changing Magic of Tidying Up not only helped me organize my tee-shirts, but it helped me refocus my mindset and priorities. She has a unique approach to decluttering and organizing, focusing on the emotional connection to belongings and the pursuit of a clutter-free life. By creating an organized environment that reflects one's values and aspirations, I felt more clarity, empowerment and energy.
Daring Greatly: How the Courage to Be Vulnerable Transforms the Way We Live, Love, Parent, and Lead by Brene Brown
The magic of Brene! This book helped me process the grief of my aunt’s death and embrace Portland as my new home. One of her firsts books, this one explores the transformative power of embracing vulnerability as a source of strength and connection. She helped me learn more about shame, fear, and the desire for connection, all as universal truths. She encourage me to live a more authentic and wholehearted life.
